Showing posts with label Loved Ones. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Loved Ones. Show all posts

Friday, August 15, 2025

After: A Doctor Explores What Near-Death Experiences Reveal about Life and Beyond Book by Dr. Bruce Greyson


The world's leading expert on near-death experiences reveals his journey toward rethinking the nature of death, life, and the continuity of consciousness.

Cases of remarkable experiences on the threshold of death have been reported since ancient times, and are described today by 10% of people whose hearts stop. The medical world has generally ignored these “near-death experiences,” dismissing them as “tricks of the brain” or wishful thinking. But after his patients started describing events that he could not just sweep under the rug, Dr. Bruce Greyson began to investigate.

As a physician without a religious belief system, he approached near-death experiences from a scientific perspective. In 
After, he shares the transformative lessons he has learned over four decades of research. Our culture has tended to view dying as the end of our consciousness, the end of our existence―a dreaded prospect that for many people evokes fear and anxiety.

But Dr. Greyson shows how scientific revelations about the dying process can support an alternative theory. Dying could be the threshold between one form of consciousness and another, not an ending but a transition. This new perspective on the nature of death can transform the fear of dying that pervades our culture into a healthy view of it as one more milestone in the course of our lives. 
After challenges us to open our minds to these experiences and to what they can teach us, and in so doing, expand our understanding of consciousness and of what it means to be human.




COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

The Signs by Tara Swart MD PhD


The neuroscientist, medical doctor, and powerhouse author of The Source shares the lost art of listening to your intuition and allowing the signs around you to guide the way to achieving the life of your dreams.

"This is more than a book, it’s a healing experience." — Jay Shetty, #1 New York Times bestselling author and host of On Purpose Podcast



Buy:  The Signs (Amazon)

Have you ever thought of someone just before they called? Or experienced a coincidence that felt too unlikely to be true?

It’s all too easy to dismiss synchronicities or signs like these as chance. But what if they weren’t? And what if, by learning to tune into them, you could access a guiding wisdom that would help you overcome challenges and cultivate personal growth?




In this groundbreaking book, world-renowned neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart explains how. Bringing together breathtaking real-life stories with teachings from cognitive psychology, near-death experiences, and much more, she’ll show you how to:

  • Tap into your most important decision-making tool: your intuition.
  • Break free from the distractions and stress of modern life and focus on what matters most.
  • Shift your mindset from fixed thinking to openness and wonder, so you can see life’s limitless possibilities.




With compelling theories about the nature of consciousness, and transformative tools to create a deep connection with the signs around you, let this book empower you to trust your instincts and thrive like never before.


COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Tuesday, February 11, 2025

A Love Poem: The Arab Spring and The Egyptian Revolution



Celebration 2.0


we would have held hands on the streets
and embraced for the journo
swooping me off my feet
wiping the blood and tears from my face
but that was another eleven, eleven
now you find me in the crowd
searching for my name
the likes of which you had not seen
blue eyes blurring, watering
and you chase me, hunt me
on the wall, behind the wall
a toppling message collapses bricks
our palace now empty
we are alone with our new desires
liberating freedom, passionate words
now I find you in the crowd
knowing your name intimately
repeating the comments I had not heard
brown eyes weary, hopeful
and I chase you, hunt you
we could have held hands on the streets
and embraced for the journo
lifting each other off our feet
wiping the blood and sweat from our face
but this was another eleven, eleven
instead, we chose to make love
and it was revolutionary

- Patti Friday, 

Poet Industries 
(From the ebook 'Society of Prophet Men')

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I wrote the above poem to honor the events I watched unfold. Feb. 11, 2011.

The first wave of the Arab Spring culminates in the resignation of Hosni Mubarak after 18 days of widespread protests, marking a pivotal moment in Egypt's modern political history. Mubarak's 30-year authoritarian rule ends with the transfer of power to the Supreme Military Council.

COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Thursday, July 25, 2024

Jasper Park Lodge




I woke up this morning to hear of the devastating forest fire that quickly swept through the town, with brave firefighters battling 300 ft. high flames. My heart broke. Jasper Park Lodge was probably one of my Father's top 3 places on Earth, filled with precious family memories.











July 24, 2024

Dear Guests,

At approximately 10:00 p.m. MT on July 22, 2024, the Municipality of Jasper declared a state of emergency. Residents and visitors in Jasper were ordered to evacuate the area due to the threat of a nearby wildfire.

We are devastated by the situation that our Jasper and Alberta community members are facing. We are extremely thankful that all our colleagues and guests have been safely evacuated. We hope the same for all others in the area. The dedication of our first responders and those coming to our aid cannot fully be expressed. We are all sending wishes of safety and strength.

As of 10:00 p.m. MT on July 24, 2024, we can confirm that the fire has reached the Fairmont Jasper Park Lodge grounds, however we are unclear about the extent of the damage. At this time, we know that parts of the resort remain untouched. We are monitoring the situation remotely and will provide more information as it becomes available.













July 25, 2024 - 7:30 am EST:
I am waiting with all of Canada, to hear if Jasper Park Lodge survived or was completely destroyed by the fire.

At fifteen in 1949, my Father went west and became the in-house printer for the Jasper Park Lodge, printing the three daily menus. He would meet with the lodge chef to receive the breakfast, lunch, and dinner menus and get them completed for the guests.




I've read many letters my Dad wrote to his family back home during that time. He adored Jasper. He golfed there and climbed the mountains.





The Fairmont Jasper Park Lodge, formerly and commonly known as Jasper Park Lodge, is a 442-room hotel on a 700-acre site along Lac Beauvert in Jasper National Park, Alberta, Canada. Established in 1921 by Canadian National Railway, it is one of Canada's grand railway hotels.


My Father wrote about his time in Jasper often.

"One day in the summer of 1950 some buddies and myself climbed this Old Man Mountain and sat and stood right on top of his nose! It took us over 10 hours of non stop climbing to get there. The trip down took only 3 hours. I have some photos somewhere of the climbers on top of his nose." - Bill Frieday 



"More on my Jasper, Alberta adventure 70 years ago. While working at Jasper Park Lodge we were able to take the odd day off to do crazy things. Like climbing mountains. We needed to practice climbing so we started off climbing Signal Mountain. Signal was more like a hill compared to the rest of the peaks around Jasper. The real test came a little later when our group decided scale "Old Man Mountain." It took us 10 difficult hours to climb and sit right on top of the Old Man's nose! Can you see his nose covered in snow? When his face was covered in snow we always said that the Old Man was shaving! Coming back down to the bottom and home took only 3 hours. Wonder if anyone here has climbed Old Man Mountain?" - Bill Frieday 


















Opened in 1915 as Tent City—a string of luxury canvas tents along Lac Beauvert with vistas of Whistlers Peak and Pyramid Mountain—the iconic Fairmont Jasper Park Lodge was possibly North America’s first “glamping” site. The destination proved wildly popular, and in 1922 a main lodge was opened, as well as a series of luxury log cabins spread across 700 acres in the heart of Jasper National Park, a UNESCO World Heritage site. Bristling with Douglas firs and pine trees, the property sees herds of elk nibbling the grass, chipmunks scurrying through the trees, and even the occasional bear. The 442 rooming options—all renovated between 2015 and 2017—include cozy spots in the main building, fireplace-equipped Junior Suites, and bring-the-whole-family Signature Cabins, all with views across the lake or the forest and mountains. The newly introduced Estate Cabins, located near the golf course, feature a private gated entrance for a more residential feel. Classic lodge-style interior design is the order of the day in the cabins, with wood beams and a combination of earthy and granite tones, while rooms and suites are clean-lined and decked out in fresh white bedding and light wood accents.








Play a few rounds on the Stanley Thompson-designed 18-hole golf course—regularly voted among the best in Canada—enjoy scenic walks and mountain hikes, or take advantage of the 10-room spa, which includes a sauna, steam room, and panoramic relaxation lounge. The restaurants celebrate regional flavors and fresh local produce, thanks to partnerships with local farms; don’t miss a sunset drink at The Emerald Lounge & Patio, which overlooks the lake, Whistler’s Range, and the east face of Mount Edith Cavell. Thanks to the picture-perfect views and the family-friendly accommodations, the Lodge is also a popular venue for destination weddings.

Jasper in the early 1900s had a few hotels established during the construction of the railway, with eight listed as established in 1911. The earliest form of tourist accommodation along Lac Beauvert came in 1915 when Robert Kenneth of Edmonton, along with the pioneer outfitters Fred and Jack Brewster, established "Tent City". Tent City had ten large sleeping tents with wooden walls and floors and a cooking tent constructed along the lakefront. Accommodation at Tent City was set at $2.50 or $3.00 per day, with a weekly rate of $15 or $18, and over 260 visitors stayed there over the summer.

In 1921, the newly nationalized Canadian National Railways purchased "Tent City" and began plans for a hotel on the site, with the first bungalow opening in June 1922 under the name "Jasper Park Lodge".

The Canadian National Railway's chief architect, John Schofield, envisioned a hotel that altered the Athabasca Valley's view as little as possible and blended seamlessly into the natural surroundings. Schofield planned for a number of small cabins made of rustic logs and fieldstone sprawling across the landscape, rather than the traditional large resort hotel.




In 1927 and 1928, the central lodge was expanded, more than doubling the size of the building, and more cabins were built around Lac Beauvert. Additional new cabins were built between 1928 and 1931, including the luxury cabins Point, Outlook, and Viewpoint, lifting the hotel's capacity to 550 guests. King George VI and his wife Queen Elizabeth visited Jasper during the 1939 royal tour of Canada, staying in the Outlook Cabin.

Tourism in Jasper National Park grew significantly in 1940 as the Icefields Parkway connecting the park to Banff was completed. In 1939, 3,100 automobiles and 21,000 people were recorded entering Jasper National Park, which jumped to 19,000 automobiles and 83,000 people in 1940. The growth in tourism was short-lived as Canada entered the Second World War, and Jasper Park Lodge closed to the public in the fall of 1942 until spring of 1946 to contribute to the war effort. In the winter of 1943–44, Jasper Park Lodge was used as a winter training base for the Scottish Lovat Scouts special mountain troops.

Many of the original log bungalows were replaced in the late-1940s through the 1960s in a modernization program.

The new Central Lodge was completed on June 9, 1953.

A $6.7 million Fairmont spa was added to the Lodge in fall 2010. In 2015–16, a $16 million renovation to all rooms (Fairmont, Deluxe, Junior Suites, and Lakefront Suites) was completed to modernize the decor. ORSO Trattoria, the hotel's first Italian restaurant, was also added to the dining options, which include The Nook Chophouse, Emerald Lounge & Patio, Thompson's Terrace, and Oka Sushi.

In 2015, the French hospitality company Accor paid $2.9 billion to acquire FRHI Hotels & Resorts, including several historic Canadian hotels such as Jasper Park Lodge, Hotel Macdonald, Banff Springs Hotel, Chateau Lake Louise, Le Chateau Frontenac, Chateau Laurier, Royal York, and Montreal's Queen Elizabeth hotel.




In the 1950s, Jasper Park Lodge hosted Marilyn Monroe's River of No Return and James Stewart's The Far Country. Monroe was evicted from the Jasper Park Lodge during the film shoot for repeatedly dressing inappropriately for dinner.


I'm feeling a bit weepy that I didn't do what my Father encouraged me to do in 2019.  My Daughter Lindsay and I were fortunate enough to spend time with great friends at Banff Springs Hotel.  My Dad hoped I would visit Jasper Park Lodge and take a few photos for him.  Our schedule was very full and I chose not to drive 3 hours to Jasper to fulfill this wish he had. Now, today, I am disappointed I didn't go. 


Photos:  Facebook/Google Image Search/Various

COPYRIGHT 2007-2024 Patti Friday b.1959.

Monday, January 29, 2024

Who is your favorite child?




Over the weekend I went out shopping with my Daughter and two Granddaughters. Thrifting mostly. While we were driving the girls in the backseat were debating 'who Mom's favorite child was'.  It was comical to hear them declare their choices and defend the reasoning. Of course, my Daughter kept on reassuring them that she did not have a favorite and that she loved them all equally. 

This rapid fire conversation got me thinking. If my creative pursuits were my children, did I have a favorite?

Here are my four offspring:  Painting, Writing, Photography and Cake.

I've literally tortured myself trying to pick 'just one' to focus on, but how awful would that be to stop mothering and nurturing one of them. Aghast! 

Who says you have to love one child (art form) the most and focus solely on developing that one?  Whoever it is, they've made me quite bitter. Angry even.

I don't want to pick just one.  I refuse.

Sure, I may not be known for just one thing, but I like it this way.  I like to be 'varied' in my art practice.

And yes, it's true, the time spent individually with my children is wonky and unfair and not 'even close to being even', but I love them all just the same.

Please don't ask me who I love the most.  I love them all equally. 

Patti xo







COPYRIGHT 2007-2024 Patti Friday b.1959.