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Sunday, June 29, 2025

Key Traits of a Wonder Tender and Manifesto



Here are the key traits of a Wonder Tender — distilled from the essence of myth, meaning, quiet awe, and soulful care:

Core Traits of a Wonder Tender 

  1. Attentive Presence

    • Listens deeply, notices the sacred in the small.

    • Practices stillness as a way of seeing more clearly.

  2. Curator of Awe

    • Finds wonder in clouds, silence, wrinkles, stories, and shadows.

    • Keeps childlike curiosity alive — not naive, but reverent.

  3. Meaning Maker

    • Weaves ritual, symbol, and metaphor into daily life.

    • Feels the mythic in the mundane and honors it with intention.

  4. Gentle Guide

    • Walks beside others without leading or pushing.

    • Helps people rediscover their own inner compass.

  5. Ethical Dreamer

    • Believes compassion, beauty, and justice are acts of spiritual integrity.

    • Tends to values like they are living things.

  6. Myth-Literate

    • Speaks in archetypes and symbols, not to escape life, but to deepen it.

    • Uses stories to heal, connect, and expand understanding.

  7. Soft Resistance

    • Moves slowly in a world that demands speed.

    • Offers stillness and meaning as quiet rebellion.

  8. Sacred Minimalist

    • Chooses less, but with depth.

    • Believes simplicity can be an altar.

  9. Inner Gardener

    • Cultivates wonder in self and others.

    • Knows that awe must be watered, protected, and sometimes rekindled.

  10. Keeper of the Flame

  • Holds space for grief, joy, mystery, and transformation.

  • Protects the fragile spark of what truly matters — in all beings.

A Wonder Tender isn’t a title. It’s a way of moving through the world with open eyes, soft hands, and a strong heart.




A Wonder Tender is someone who nurtures awe — a gentle guardian of the sacred, mysterious, and beautiful aspects of life. Rather than chasing enlightenment or answers, they care for the flame of curiosity, reverence, and meaning.

What a Wonder Tender Is:

  • A curator of awe – tending to small, fleeting moments with attention and gratitude

  • A keeper of inner light – honoring dreams, myths, symbols, and emotions

  • A soft guide – helping others reconnect with wonder through presence, not persuasion

  • A meaning gardener – planting ideas, stories, and rituals that grow into deeper truths

  • An ethical dreamer – living by values rooted in reverence for life and connection

A Wonder Tender might be:

  • A writer who crafts metaphors like sacred lanterns

  • A teacher who creates rituals out of questions, not just answers

  • A friend who listens as if your story is a myth unfolding

  • A seeker who finds beauty in the cracks of everyday life

  • A researcher with a hunger and relentless passion for knowing.

  • A photographer who feels compelled to document everything.

They don’t claim to know — they care.


Each ritual is gentle yet powerful — meant to anchor you in wonder, connect you to your inner mythmaker, and turn everyday life into sacred practice.

Wonder Tender Ritual Practices 

(with writing, poetry & photography as core tools)

1. Dawn Pages of Devotion (Writing)

Each morning, write three slow pages — not to be productive, but to meet yourself. Let it be prayer, poem, blur, or memory. Title each entry like a sacred scroll.

Prompt: “What is my heart whispering before the day speaks?”

2. Myth Mapping (Writing + Photography)

Take a walk with your camera. Capture five images. Later, write a myth or short fable inspired by what you saw — a cracked sidewalk, a crow’s flight, a forgotten chair.

Prompt: “If this image were a symbol in my life’s story, what would it mean?”

3. Altars of Light (Photography + Ritual)

Create seasonal or emotional altars in your space — using natural objects, candles, old letters, found images. Photograph them in soft light. Let them become visual poems of feeling.

Sacred twist: Change the altar at each moon phase. Honor grief, joy, longing, or hope.

4. The Quiet Poem (Poetry)

Choose one small, ordinary moment each day — the steam from a mug, birdsong through glass, a tear not yet cried. Write a 4-line poem. Keep it private.
This is your daily devotion to the beauty of noticing.

5. The Wonderwalk (Photography + Meditation)

Go for a 20-minute walk with your camera. No goal but this: See the world like a child who believes in fairies.
Photograph shadows, symbols, gestures of nature. Then write one line of poetry for each image.

6. Ancestral Letters (Writing)

Write letters to mythic ancestors — real or imagined. Write to Gaia, Sappho, Rumi, your grandmother, or your future self. Ask them for guidance or tell them what you’ve learned.

Prompt: “What wisdom do I carry that wants to be remembered?”

7. The Candle Question (Ritual + Writing)

Each night, light a single candle. Ask one sacred question aloud. Write freely beneath its flicker.

Examples:

  • What is sacred today?

  • What story am I living in?

  • What must be grieved to be whole?

8. Photopoem Fusion (Photography + Poetry)

Choose a photo you’ve taken — ideally one filled with mystery or subtle emotion. Write a freeform poem across it (physically or digitally).
This is your soul speaking in both light and word.

9. Seasons of the Self (Photography Series + Journal)

Track your inner life like the seasons. Each solstice or equinox, take a self-portrait — not for vanity, but for witness.
Journal what is being born, dying, shedding, or blooming within.

10. The Wonder Binder (Creative Archive)

Keep a physical or digital “tender’s grimoire” — filled with poetry, quotes, photos, symbols, pressed leaves, and fragments of dreams.
This is your sacred document, your growing myth.

A Wonder Tender can be found across time, culture, and form — in writers, poets, photographers, artists, and quiet cultural voices who tend to awe, beauty, truth, and mystery with care.

Here’s a list of Wonder Tenders, both living and departed — souls who gently shaped the world through presence, meaning, and reverent creativity:

Writers & Poets

  1. Mary Oliver – Her poems are daily prayers to the wild and wondrous.

  2. Rainer Maria Rilke – A soul-tender whose letters and poems cradle deep existential mystery.

  3. Ross Gay – Celebrates delight with radical softness and joy as resistance.

  4. Ocean Vuong – Blends pain and grace into lyrical wonder.

  5. Kahlil Gibran – Spoke of love, loss, and the sacred in the everyday.

  6. Patti Smith – Punk priestess who writes like a mystic in denim.

  7. Clarissa Pinkola Estés – Myth-loving storyteller who nurtures the wild soul.

  8. May Sarton – Her journals are contemplative masterpieces of solitude and truth.

  9. David Whyte – A poetic philosopher of presence and courageous living.

  10. James Baldwin – Saw into the soul of a nation with fire and tenderness.

Photographers & Visual Seers

  1. Sally Mann – Explored mortality, myth, and family through haunting images.

  2. Dorothea Lange – Saw the dignity in struggle; tendered truth with her lens.

  3. Vivian Maier – A mysterious observer of small wonders in everyday life.

  4. Francesca Woodman – Made her inner world mythic through haunting, poetic images.

  5. Minor White – Believed photographs were metaphors for the spirit.

Artists, Cultural Icons & Visionaries

  1. Fred Rogers – A quiet revolutionary of empathy and wonder.

  2. Albert Einstein – Not just a scientist, but a philosopher of mystery and awe.

  3. Hilma af Klint – Painter of the unseen spiritual world, ahead of her time.

  4. Leonard Cohen – Poet-songwriter of beauty, brokenness, and grace.

  5. Georgia O’Keeffe – Found sacredness in bones, flowers, and desert silence.

  6. Carl Jung – Tended the deep inner mythic self of modern psychology.

  7. Thich Nhat Hanh – Whispered the sacred into every breath and bowl.

  8. Anaïs Nin – Journaled the mythic feminine and the inner tides of becoming.

  9. Emily Dickinson – Reclusive guardian of inner galaxies, word by luminous word.

  10. Yoko Ono – A conceptual dreamer turning fragments of grief into global art offerings.

These Wonder Tenders weren’t necessarily loud, powerful, or perfect.
They nurtured the unseen — through metaphor, image, ritual, and kindness.


Manifesto of the Wonder Tender 

I do not seek to conquer truth,
but to cradle it.
To warm the quiet flame of mystery
and guard the sacred hush between answers.

I walk with bare feet across the stories of the world,
feeling for the symbols buried in soil and skin,
listening for the forgotten music
between logic and longing.

I tend to wonder like a garden —
watering questions, pruning cynicism,
inviting both wild bloom and slow decay.
I believe awe is not a luxury,
but a necessity of the soul.

I carry no commandments,
only lanterns.
I do not preach, I pause.
I do not demand belief, I invite presence.
My compass is care.
My altar is attention.

In a world that rushes,
I remain — still enough to witness.
Still enough to notice the myth within the mundane,
the divine within the daily.

I believe in meaning that breathes.
I believe we are all stories —
becoming, unraveling,
being stitched back together
by love, loss, ritual, and reimagining.

I am a Wonder Tender.
Not here to lead you.
Here to walk beside you
as you remember the way.


COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Monday, February 17, 2025

Bernie Taupin and Elton John's Unique and Successful Songwriting Partnership & Process



Bernie Taupin and Elton John had a unique and highly successful songwriting partnership. Unlike many songwriting duos who write together in the same room, they worked separately before bringing their contributions together. Here’s how their creative process worked:

1. Bernie Taupin Wrote the Lyrics First

  • Taupin would write full lyrics without music—essentially poetry or storytelling lyrics.
  • He often worked alone, drawing inspiration from personal experiences, books, movies, or historical events.
  • His lyrics weren’t tied to a specific melody, giving Elton room to interpret them freely.

2. Elton John Composed the Music

  • Elton would receive Taupin’s lyrics and then sit at the piano to create a melody.
  • He composed incredibly fast—sometimes finishing a song in as little as 30 minutes!
  • He rarely changed Taupin’s lyrics, instead shaping his melodies to fit the words naturally.

3. Refining & Arranging

  • Once Elton had the music, he’d work with his band or a producer to refine the song.
  • Orchestration, instrumentation, and harmonies were added during production.

4. Recording & Performing

  • After refining the arrangement, they recorded the song in the studio.
  • Elton John’s performance and unique vocal style brought Taupin’s lyrics to life.

Example of Their Process in Action

  • "Your Song" – Taupin wrote the lyrics in 15 minutes while having breakfast, and Elton composed the melody almost immediately afterward.
  • "Rocket Man" – Taupin was inspired by Ray Bradbury’s short story The Rocket Man, and Elton turned the lyrics into one of his most famous ballads.

This unusual lyrics-first, music-later approach allowed them to create timeless songs with deep emotional impact.



COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Wednesday, January 22, 2025

Writing Micro-Novels and Novelettes


Micro-novels (also called "bite-sized fiction" or "serialized fiction") are becoming an emerging trend in the world of eBooks and digital publishing. These compact stories cater to modern readers who are often pressed for time but still enjoy engaging narratives. Here's why micro-novels are gaining popularity:

Key Features of Micro-Novels:

  1. Shorter Length: Typically between 5,000 to 30,000 words, they’re much shorter than traditional novels, making them easy to read in one sitting or over a few commutes.
  2. Engaging Plots: They focus on fast-paced, compelling storytelling, cutting unnecessary details while delivering impactful narratives.
  3. Serialized Releases: Many micro-novels are published in episodes or chapters, allowing readers to follow a story over time, similar to how TV series unfold.
  4. Digital-First Format: Optimized for mobile devices, they’re often available as eBooks or through platforms like Wattpad or Radish.

Why They Appeal to Readers:

  • Time-Friendly: Perfect for busy readers who want to finish a story without a long-term commitment.
  • Cost-Effective: Micro-novels are often priced lower than full-length novels, making them an affordable choice.
  • Versatile Genres: They span a wide variety of genres, from romance and mystery to science fiction and thrillers.
  • Interactive Platforms: Many serialized micro-novels encourage reader interaction, such as voting on plot directions or engaging with authors directly.

Why Authors Are Embracing Micro-Novels:

  • Faster Production: Writing a micro-novel takes less time than a full-length book, allowing authors to publish more frequently.
  • Experimentation: Authors can test ideas, styles, or niche genres without committing to a lengthy project.
  • Audience Building: Serialized formats encourage ongoing reader engagement, helping authors grow a loyal following.

Platforms Supporting Micro-Novels:

  • Wattpad: Known for short-form serialized stories.
  • Radish: A platform focusing on bite-sized fiction for mobile readers.
  • Tapas: Popular for short serialized fiction and graphic stories.

As attention spans grow shorter and lifestyles busier, micro-novels are carving out their niche by providing captivating stories in easily consumable formats. They’re not just a passing trend—they’re reshaping the way stories are told and consumed in the digital age.


Micro-novels and novelettes share similarities in that they are both shorter than traditional novels, but they are distinct in terms of length, purpose, and format. Here’s a breakdown of how they compare:

1. Length:

  • Novelette: Typically ranges from 7,500 to 17,500 words, as defined by organizations like the Science Fiction and Fantasy Writers of America (SFWA). It's longer than a short story but shorter than a novella.
  • Micro-Novel: Less rigidly defined but generally shorter than a novelette, often ranging between 5,000 to 15,000 words. Serialized micro-novels may have even smaller "episodes" released over time.

2. Purpose and Format:

  • Novelette: Focuses on standalone storytelling, often fully self-contained, with room for moderate character and plot development. It is typically written with literary or genre fiction in mind and published as part of an anthology, magazine, or as an individual eBook.
  • Micro-Novel: Designed for quick consumption, often for readers on mobile platforms. It may follow a serialized format (episodic chapters released over time), catering to modern, busy readers. The emphasis is often on immediate engagement and accessibility rather than literary depth.

3. Story Depth:

  • Novelette: Offers a balance between the brevity of a short story and the depth of a novella. It provides enough space to explore characters, world-building, and a central conflict.
  • Micro-Novel: Typically focuses on fast-paced, engaging storytelling, with leaner plots and simpler world-building. The goal is to hook readers quickly without requiring a major time commitment.

4. Publication Style:

  • Novelette: More traditional in its publication, often appearing in genre anthologies or as standalone eBooks.
  • Micro-Novel: Frequently distributed on digital-first platforms like Wattpad or Radish, and sometimes designed for episodic consumption. It thrives in app-based or online environments.

5. Audience and Use:

  • Novelette: Appeals to readers who enjoy thoughtful, shorter works that are slightly more complex than short stories but don't require the time investment of a novel.
  • Micro-Novel: Targets busy, on-the-go readers who want entertainment in small, digestible chunks, often with an emphasis on immediacy, escapism, and interaction.

Key Takeaway:

While both forms focus on shorter storytelling, the novelette leans more toward literary tradition and depth, while the micro-novel emphasizes accessibility, fast pacing, and mobile-friendly consumption. The rise of digital platforms has popularized micro-novels as a modern adaptation of shorter fiction for today’s fast-paced world.


COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Saturday, January 18, 2025

So You Want to Be A Culinary Writer


A culinary writer is someone who specializes in writing about food, cooking, and related topics. Here are some of the things they typically do:

  1. Recipe Development: They create and test recipes, ensuring they are clear, accurate, and appealing to the intended audience.

  2. Food Journalism: They write articles, reviews, and features about food trends, restaurants, chefs, and culinary events.

  3. Cookbook Authorship: They conceive, research, and write cookbooks, often including recipes, cooking techniques, and personal stories.

  4. Food Blogging: They maintain blogs focused on food, sharing recipes, cooking tips, and personal experiences related to food culture.

  5. Recipe Writing: They write recipes for publications, websites, and culinary platforms, adhering to specific style guidelines and ensuring recipes are user-friendly.

  6. Food Criticism: They assess and critique food, restaurants, and dining experiences for publications or online platforms.

  7. Food Photography and Styling: Some culinary writers also photograph and style food for their own work or collaborate with photographers to visually enhance their content.

  8. Research and Reporting: They conduct research on culinary history, ingredients, and cultural contexts to provide accurate and informative content.

  9. Educational Content: They may create educational materials such as cooking tutorials, food guides, and instructional videos.

Culinary writers often combine their passion for food with strong writing skills to engage and inform readers about various aspects of the culinary world.



Graphic: The Bitter Southerner, Issue 8

COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Thursday, January 16, 2025

Writing Style: Poetic Vignette Snapshot



Writing Style—poetic, vignette, or snapshot style—shares similarities with all three, but each term emphasizes slightly different aspects of the writing. 

Here's a breakdown to clarify:

Poetic Style

  • Focus: Emphasis on rhythm, imagery, and emotion.
  • Features: Evocative language, metaphor, and a lyrical tone.
  • Use: Aims to create a visceral or emotional response, often abstract and flowing.

Vignette Style

  • Focus: A brief, descriptive scene or moment in time.
  • Features: Rich detail, minimal plot, and a focus on atmosphere, character, or mood.
  • Use: Captures a single slice of life, often without a broader narrative arc.

Snapshot Style

  • Focus: A concise, clear depiction of a specific moment or image.
  • Features: Crisp, minimalistic language, like a photo translated into words.
  • Use: Highlights a single detail or scene, often with a sense of immediacy and simplicity.

Key Distinction

  • If it leans on artistic and lyrical elements: Poetic.
  • If it paints a vivid, standalone moment: Vignette.
  • If it's concise and visual, like a mental photograph: Snapshot.



COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Monday, January 13, 2025

The Santa Ana by Joan Didion


"The Santa Ana" Los Angeles Notebook

There is something uneasy in the Los Angeles air this afternoon, some unnatural stillness, some tension. What it means is that tonight a Santa Ana will begin to blow, a hot wind from the northeast whining down through the Cajon and San Gorgonio Passes, blowing up sand storms out along Route 66, drying the hills and the nerves to flash point. For a few days now we will see smoke back in the canyons, and hear sirens in the night. I have neither heard nor read that a Santa Ana is due, but I know it, and almost everyone I have seen today knows it too. We know it because we feel it. The baby frets. The maid sulks. I rekindle a waning argument with the telephone company, then cut my losses and lie down, given over to whatever it is in the air. To live with the Santa Ana is to accept, consciously or unconsciously, a deeply mechanistic view of human behavior.

I recall being told, when I first moved to Los Angeles and was living on an isolated beach, that the Indians would throw themselves into the sea when the bad wind blew. I could see why. The Pacific turned ominously glossy during a Santa Ana period, and one woke in the night troubled not only by the peacocks screaming in the olive trees but by the eerie absence of surf. The heat was surreal. The sky had a yellow cast, the kind of light sometimes called “earthquake weather.” My only neighbor would not come out of her house for days, and there were no lights at night, and her husband roamed the place with a machete. One day he would tell me that he had heard a trespasser, the next a rattlesnake.

“On nights like that,” Raymond Chandler once wrote about the Santa Ana, “every booze party ends in a fight. Meek little wives feel the edge of the carving knife and study their husbands’ necks. Anything can happen.” That was the kind of wind it was. I did not know then that there was any basis for the effect it had on all of us, but it turns out to be another of those cases in which science bears out folk wisdom. The Santa Ana, which is named for one of the canyons it rushers through, is foehn wind, like the foehn of Austria and Switzerland and the hamsin of Israel. There are a number of persistent malevolent winds, perhaps the best know of which are the mistral of France and the Mediterranean sirocco, but a foehn wind has distinct characteristics: it occurs on the leeward slope of a mountain range and, although the air begins as a cold mass, it is warmed as it comes down the mountain and appears finally as a hot dry wind. Whenever and wherever foehn blows, doctors hear about headaches and nausea and allergies, about “nervousness,” about “depression.”

In Los Angeles some teachers do not attempt to conduct formal classes during a Santa Ana, because the children become unmanageable. In Switzerland the suicide rate goes up during the foehn, and in the courts of some Swiss cantons the wind is considered a mitigating circumstance for crime. Surgeons are said to watch the wind, because blood does not clot normally during a foehn. A few years ago an Israeli physicist discovered that not only during such winds, but for the ten or twelve hours which precede them, the air carries an unusually high ratio of positive to negative ions. No one seems to know exactly why that should be; some talk about friction and others suggest solar disturbances. In any case the positive ions are there, and what an excess of positive ions does, in the simplest terms, is make people unhappy. One cannot get much more mechanistic than that.

Easterners commonly complain that there is no “weather” at all in Southern California, that the days and the seasons slip by relentlessly, numbingly bland. That is quite misleading. In fact the climate is characterized by infrequent but violent extremes: two periods of torrential subtropical rains which continue for weeks and wash out the hills and send subdivisions sliding toward the sea; about twenty scattered days a year of the Santa Ana, which, with its incendiary dryness, invariably means fire. At the first prediction of a Santa Ana, the Forest Service flies men and equipment from northern California into the southern forests, and the Los Angeles Fire Department cancels its ordinary non-firefighting routines. The Santa Ana caused Malibu to burn as it did in 1956, and Bel Air in 1961, and Santa Barbara in 1964. In the winter of 1966-67 eleven men were killed fighting a Santa Ana fire that spread through the San Gabriel Mountains.

Just to watch the front-page news out of Los Angeles during a Santa Ana is to get very close to what it is about the place. The longest single Santa Ana period in recent years was in 1957, and it lasted not the usual three or four days but fourteen days, from November 21 until December 4. On the first day 25,000 acres of the San Gabriel Mountains were burning, with gusts reaching 100 miles an hour. In town, the wind reached Force 12, or hurricane force, on the Beaufort Scale; oil derricks were toppled and people ordered off the downtown streets to avoid injury from flying objects. On November 22 the fire in the San Gabriels was out of control. On November 24 six people were killed in automobile accidents, and by the end of the week the Los Angeles Times was keeping a box score of traffic deaths. On November 26 a prominent Pasadena attorney, depressed about money, shot and killed his wife, their two sons and himself. On November 27 a South Gate divorcée, twenty-two, was murdered and thrown from a moving car. On November 30 the San Gabriel fire was still out of control, and the wind in town was blowing eighty miles an hour. On the first day of December four people died violently, and on the third the wind began to break.

It is hard for people who have not lived in Los Angeles to realize how radically the Santa Ana figures in the local imagination. The city burning is Los Angeles’s deepest image of itself. Nathaniel West perceived that, in The Day of the Locust, and at the time of the 1965 Watts riots what struck the imagination most indelibly were the fires. For days one could drive the Harbor Freeway and see the city on fire, just as we had always known it would be in the end. Los Angeles weather is the weather of catastrophe, of apocalypse, and, just as the reliably long and bitter winters of New England determine the way life is lived there, so the violence and the unpredictability of the Santa Ana affect the entire quality of life in Los Angeles, accentuate its impermanence, its unreliability. The winds shows us how close to the edge we are.

Joan DidionThe Santa Ana

“Los Angeles Notebook”



BOOK:  Slouching Towards Bethlehem

The Saturday Evening Post, 1965.

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COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Wednesday, December 18, 2024

Key Features and Importance of an Author's Backlist



An author's backlist refers to the collection of books or works that the author has published in the past but are not their most recent or actively promoted releases. These works are often older but remain available for readers to purchase and enjoy.

Key Features of an Author's Backlist:

  • Past Publications: Includes all previously published titles, whether they are standalone books, series entries, or works in anthologies.
  • Diverse Stages of Career: It may include early works, mid-career books, or even well-established classics if the author is notable.
  • Sales Potential: A strong backlist can continue generating royalties for an author, especially if new readers discover their current works and seek out older ones.
  • Reissues and Updates: Backlist titles can sometimes be reissued with new covers, introductions, or revisions to rekindle interest.

Importance of an Author's Backlist:

  • Discoverability: New fans often explore an author’s backlist after enjoying their latest work.
  • Revenue: Even if backlist books don’t receive active promotion, they can provide a steady income stream.
  • Brand Building: A solid backlist enhances an author’s portfolio and establishes credibility in their genre or field.
  • Opportunity for Revival: Popularity in one title might prompt reprints or adaptations of older works.

For authors, a well-maintained backlist can be as important as new releases, helping to sustain their career over the long term.

Patti 

(Here's my current backlist!)


COPYRIGHT 2007-2024 Patti Friday b.1959.

Thursday, December 12, 2024

What does a Cookery Writer do?



A cookery writer is someone who writes about cooking, food preparation, and related topics. Their work can range from writing cookbooks filled with recipes and techniques to creating food columns, blogs, or articles about culinary trends, ingredients, or food culture.

Cookery writers may also provide:

  • Recipes: Detailed instructions for preparing dishes, often with variations or tips.
  • Cooking techniques: Guides on methods like roasting, baking, or fermenting.
  • Food stories: Personal anecdotes, histories, or cultural significance of specific dishes or ingredients.
  • Ingredient features: Exploring the origins, uses, and benefits of specific ingredients.
  • Reviews: Opinions on restaurants, kitchen tools, or cookbooks.


Many cookery writers combine their culinary expertise with storytelling to educate, inspire, and entertain their audience.


COPYRIGHT 2007-2024 Patti Friday b.1959.

Tuesday, December 10, 2024

How to Achieve Anthony Bourdain's Documentarian Storytelling Style



Why He Was a Documentarian:

  1. Authentic Storytelling: Bourdain’s shows went beyond food to explore the history, politics, and daily lives of the people in the places he visited.
  2. Cultural Observation: He captured and shared the beauty and struggles of different cultures with a deep sense of respect and curiosity.
  3. Social Commentary: His work often touched on global issues like poverty, war, and inequality, making his storytelling both relevant and thought-provoking.
  4. Personal Perspective: Bourdain’s candid approach and reflective voice added layers of depth to the stories he documented.

While he worked through the medium of travel and food, his exploration of humanity and his ability to document it in a visually and emotionally compelling way places him firmly in the realm of documentary storytelling. 

Anthony Bourdain's approach to documentary storytelling was deeply influential, particularly in how he blended travel, food, culture, and social issues with an authentic and personal touch. Here are some key aspects of his style and influence:

1. Authenticity and Honesty

Bourdain was known for his raw, unfiltered perspective. He didn't just showcase the "touristy" or glamorous aspects of a place; instead, he delved into the complexities of local life, often highlighting its struggles, contradictions, and the lives of ordinary people. His willingness to show vulnerability—his own struggles with addiction and personal challenges—also added a layer of depth to his storytelling.

  • Example: In Parts Unknown, Bourdain explored cities affected by war and conflict, such as Beirut and Libya, showing not only the food but the resilience and humanity of the people living there.

2. Focus on People Over Places

While food was a central theme, Bourdain's primary focus was always on the people he encountered. He sought out diverse voices, from street vendors to political figures, and often gave marginalized or overlooked communities a platform. His curiosity was as much about the people as it was about their culture, food, and traditions.

  • Example: His episode in Kurdistan, where he spent time with Kurdish fighters and civilians, illuminated the complexity of the region’s political tensions, blending travel with social and political commentary.

3. Breaking Stereotypes

Bourdain was committed to breaking down stereotypes, both about food and the places he visited. He was not afraid to challenge assumptions and engage in candid discussions about race, class, and culture.

  • Example: In his travels through Japan, Bourdain didn’t just show high-end sushi restaurants or pristine images of Tokyo; he also took his viewers to humble, local spots, including places that served comfort food and bar food, such as yakitori joints.

4. Use of Humor and Self-Reflection

Bourdain's wry humor and self-deprecating nature made him a relatable figure. He didn’t portray himself as an expert or authority on anything but rather as a curious, open-minded traveler. This helped to humanize him and make his documentary approach feel more grounded and approachable.

  • Example: In many episodes, his interactions with locals were filled with humor and humility, even when faced with unfamiliar or sometimes difficult situations, such as eating challenging or exotic foods.

5. Deep Social and Political Engagement

Bourdain didn't shy away from exploring social and political issues, often using food as a lens to discuss broader topics such as economic inequality, labor exploitation, and environmental issues. His shows became a platform for thoughtful, in-depth conversations about the real-world issues affecting the places he visited.

  • Example: In his show Parts Unknown, Bourdain explored the lives of immigrants and workers in New York, addressing issues like labor rights and the immigrant experience in America.

6. Cultural Diplomacy

Through his work, Bourdain acted as a cultural ambassador, bridging gaps between diverse cultures. His ability to connect with people from different walks of life, especially in countries experiencing conflict or poverty, was one of his most remarkable traits. He used his platform to encourage understanding, empathy, and respect for cultures that might be misunderstood or marginalized.

  • Example: His show "No Reservations" brought him to Cuba, where he used food and local interactions to give a nuanced portrayal of the country, highlighting the warmth and resilience of its people despite its complex political landscape.

7. Impact on Travel and Food Shows

Bourdain’s documentary style was groundbreaking for the travel and food genre. He was one of the first to introduce a more profound, thoughtful approach to the concept of "food travel"—not just exploring culinary traditions but reflecting on the cultural and social forces that shape them. His work influenced many other hosts and creators in the genre, inspiring a more reflective, personal approach to storytelling.

8. Legacy and Influence

Bourdain’s influence extended beyond TV and media. His advocacy for ethical food production, his critical stance on consumerism, and his ability to engage deeply with his subjects continue to inspire creators, chefs, and documentarians alike. He not only helped redefine the food documentary but also paved the way for a more empathetic and introspective approach to global storytelling.



Anthony Bourdain’s documentaries were a blend of humanity, food, culture, and social awareness. His willingness to embrace vulnerability, tell unvarnished truths, and engage with people on a deeply human level made his work unique and powerful. His influence can still be felt today, especially in the way documentary filmmakers approach the intersection of culture and social issues.

Style

Anthony Bourdain’s style, both as a storyteller and through his TV shows, was marked by a unique combination of authenticity, candidness, and a deep curiosity about the world. His approach made him stand out in the realm of travel and food shows, as he moved beyond simple culinary exploration to craft documentaries that intertwined food with culture, politics, and humanity. Below are the key aspects of his style and how they influenced his shows:

1. Relatable and Humble Presence

Bourdain’s relatable demeanor was one of the defining features of his shows. Unlike traditional TV hosts, who often positioned themselves as "experts" or "guides," Bourdain approached each episode with humility and an open mind. He wasn’t just a chef or a food critic—he was an outsider trying to understand the world through food, conversation, and travel.

  • Example: In No Reservations and Parts Unknown, Bourdain often began episodes with personal reflections or comments about how little he knew about a particular place or culture, making him more relatable and real to viewers.

2. Authentic Storytelling and Deep Empathy

Bourdain’s style was centered on authentic storytelling. He was deeply empathetic and went beyond the surface level of travel or food by exploring the lives of ordinary people, often those in marginalized or overlooked communities. His shows didn’t just present a place’s attractions or landmarks—they delved into the complexities of local life, history, struggles, and triumphs.

  • Example: In Parts Unknown (his CNN show), Bourdain would take his audience to places like Libya, Beirut, or Cuba, exploring not just the food but the socio-political realities of the country. He spent time with locals, engaging in thoughtful discussions about their lives, hopes, and the challenges they faced.

3. Candidness and Humor

Bourdain’s wit and humor were key to his storytelling style. He wasn’t afraid to make self-deprecating remarks, show vulnerability, or laugh at the absurdity of situations. His humor allowed him to connect with audiences in an approachable way while also diffusing the tension that might arise in more serious discussions.

  • Example: Even when tackling difficult subjects, like the economic struggles of workers in Indonesia or the harsh conditions of New Orleans after Hurricane Katrina, Bourdain maintained a sense of humor and humility. This balanced approach kept his documentaries accessible and emotionally resonant.

4. Food as a Gateway to Culture

Bourdain was first and foremost a chef, but his love for food was more about culture and connection than it was about gourmet dishes or trends. For Bourdain, food was a gateway into understanding the soul of a place and its people. He often said that food could tell you everything about a culture—the history, the values, the struggles, and the joys.

  • Example: In his show No Reservations, Bourdain used food to explore the traditions of places like Vietnam and Mexico, showing how food traditions were influenced by geography, history, and political climate. He didn’t just eat in fancy restaurants; he also explored street food, family recipes, and the shared communal experience of eating.

5. Deep Social and Political Commentary

Unlike many other food or travel shows, Bourdain’s work was grounded in social and political commentary. He didn’t shy away from difficult topics such as war, poverty, corruption, and class inequality. His work often addressed how these issues shaped the daily lives of ordinary people, and how food—often a symbol of resilience or survival—was intertwined with these larger societal forces.

  • Example: In his episode on Cuba in Parts Unknown, Bourdain didn’t just show tourists eating in upscale restaurants; he went to the homes of everyday people, discussing the impact of Cuban communism on their lives and exploring the effects of American trade embargoes on the country’s economy.

6. Immersive and Visual Storytelling

Bourdain’s shows were also marked by their visual style—often immersive, atmospheric, and sometimes cinematic. The direction was meant to draw viewers into the environment, allowing them to feel the mood of the location. The camera often lingered on faces, moments, and details to emphasize the human experience.

  • Example: In Parts Unknown, scenes in Morocco or Vietnam were beautifully shot, capturing not just the food but the landscape, architecture, and people in a way that reflected the cultural richness of each place. The cinematography was both intimate and expansive, creating a sense of immersion.

7. Breaking Stereotypes and Giving Voice to Others

Bourdain made a point of breaking stereotypes and challenging preconceived notions about people, places, and food. He went out of his way to tell stories that were often overlooked or misunderstood, giving voice to people who rarely received mainstream attention. His shows often highlighted the experiences of working-class people, immigrants, and communities affected by conflict.

  • Example: In his Parts Unknown episode on Detroit, Bourdain went beyond the city’s decline and instead focused on the resilience of its people, including artists, activists, and local food entrepreneurs who were working to rebuild the city and reclaim its identity.

8. Respect for Local Traditions

Bourdain was always respectful of local traditions and customs, especially when it came to food. He didn’t condescend to the cultures he explored but instead sought to understand and celebrate their uniqueness. His shows often highlighted the wisdom and skills of local chefs, cooks, and food vendors, many of whom were not widely known outside their communities.

  • Example: In No Reservations, Bourdain traveled to Japan and India, showing deep respect for traditional methods of cooking, local ingredients, and the artistry of chefs. He spent time learning from these experts and celebrated the heritage that went into their food.

Influence and Legacy

Bourdain’s influence on TV shows and documentaries is profound. He redefined the travel and food genre, making it about much more than just eating or exploring. His approach inspired a wave of food and travel influencers to explore deeper, more meaningful subjects and use food as a lens to look at broader cultural and social issues.

His style also paved the way for other documentaries and food shows that combine storytelling, culture, and human connection in powerful ways. Shows like "Street Food" (Netflix) or "Ugly Delicious" (Netflix, hosted by David Chang) follow in Bourdain's footsteps, exploring the ways food connects to social justice, personal identity, and history.


Bourdain's unique approach to storytelling—where food, culture, humanity, and politics intersect—will continue to influence the world of documentary filmmaking for years to come.

Photography Style Inspired by Anthony Bourdain

Creating a similar style to Anthony Bourdain's in photography and writing involves blending authenticity, cultural sensitivity, and personal storytelling. Bourdain’s style in TV was rooted in deeply engaging with people, food, and places with a sense of humility, humor, and curiosity. To replicate this approach in your own work, here are some strategies for both photography and writing:


  1. Focus on Authenticity

    • Capture Real Moments: Instead of staging or overly curated images, focus on authentic, unposed moments. Whether it’s a street vendor preparing food, a local laughing with friends, or a quiet moment in a market, try to reveal the raw humanity of the scene.
    • Be In the Moment: Spend time in your environment before taking photos. Get to know the people and culture. This will help you capture genuine interactions and create more emotional and compelling images.

    Example: In a market setting, rather than only focusing on the products being sold, photograph the interaction between the seller and buyer, showing the connection or the texture of their hands as they exchange goods.

  2. Show the Context

    • Tell a Story: Bourdain’s work often incorporated both the details and the bigger picture. In photography, this means balancing wide shots with close-ups. Show both the environment (buildings, streets, landscapes) and personal, intimate moments (a person’s expression, hands at work, etc.).
    • Capture Surroundings: Give the viewer a sense of place by incorporating background elements that help them understand the setting—whether it’s a crowded street in a city or a quiet rural setting.

    Example: A wide shot of a bustling street market, followed by a close-up of a cook carefully crafting a dish, highlighting their face and the food they are preparing. This creates a narrative of place and action.

  3. Humility and Empathy in Your Lens

    • Respect for People and Cultures: Approach your subjects with respect and empathy, capturing their essence rather than exploiting them. Like Bourdain, always seek to portray people with dignity and understanding.
    • Be Vulnerable: Sometimes, showing your own perspective in your photos can mirror Bourdain’s self-reflective storytelling. This can be done through reflections, self-portraits, or even photographing something through your eyes, metaphorically speaking.

    Example: In a project documenting immigrants, focus not just on their faces but their surroundings, such as the items they bring with them or the emotional weight of their expressions, to highlight their stories.

  4. Use Lighting to Set the Mood

    • Just like Bourdain’s shows used lighting to create mood and atmosphere, play with natural light in your photos to emphasize emotions or to add to the setting's vibe. Golden hour light or night photography can enhance intimacy or drama.

    Example: When photographing a local chef at night, you could use warm, soft lighting to create an intimate, cozy feel, reminiscent of Bourdain’s intimate conversations with local people.

  5. Unusual Angles and Composition

    • Break Conventional Rules: Bourdain’s storytelling was known for its visual impact, and you can mirror this with unusual angles, perspectives, and compositions. Experiment with framing, using reflections, or capturing moments through unexpected lenses or shadows.

    Example: Shoot a scene from a low angle or capture food from overhead, focusing on the textures and details to create visually dynamic compositions.


Writing Style Inspired by Anthony Bourdain

  1. Personal, Candid Voice

    • Be Honest and Vulnerable: Bourdain’s writing was marked by brutal honesty and self-reflection. Your writing should be free of pretension, allowing your voice to shine through authentically. Don't shy away from being self-deprecating or sharing personal insights.
    • Let Your Curiosity Lead: Like Bourdain, your writing should reflect an ongoing curiosity. Rather than presenting information as an expert, embrace the role of an explorer, learning and discovering along the way.

    Example: Write about your experience visiting a new city, including not only what you saw but also how you felt—your confusion, your joy, your discomfort—creating a deeply personal narrative.

  2. Cultural Sensitivity and Empathy

    • Respect and Honor Local Cultures: When writing about a place or people, do so with respect. Understand the cultural context and avoid oversimplifying or sensationalizing. Like Bourdain, acknowledge the complexity of the places you visit and the people you meet.
    • Avoid Stereotyping: Aim to present diverse perspectives and narratives, avoiding clichés or overly simplistic portrayals.

    Example: In writing about a city’s food scene, don’t just list the best restaurants; explore the historical, social, and personal stories behind each dish and the people who make it.

  3. Blend Storytelling with Social Commentary

    • Use Food as a Gateway: Food can be more than just an experience—it’s often tied to history, politics, and identity. Use food to discuss broader themes, just as Bourdain did. Explore how food reflects economic disparities, labor struggles, or cultural exchange.
    • Layer Your Narrative: Integrate personal anecdotes, local stories, and historical context to create rich, multi-dimensional narratives. Use your experiences as a window into the world of the people you’re documenting.

    Example: While describing a meal, explore how the dish was affected by colonial history or migration, weaving in a larger social context.

  4. Engage the Senses

    • Vivid Descriptions: Like Bourdain’s vivid descriptions of food, immerse your reader in the sensory experience. Detail the smells, sounds, textures, and tastes, allowing the reader to feel as if they’re right there with you.
    • Create a Strong Sense of Place: Use sensory detail to transport your audience to the places you write about, from the dusty streets of a rural town to the sizzling sounds of a busy kitchen.

    Example: Describe not just the taste of a dish but also the aroma of spices in the air, the textures of the food, and the sounds of cooking, giving your reader a full sensory experience.

  5. Tone: Honest, Humble, and Humorous

    • Tone Shifting: Like Bourdain, your writing should move easily between humor, introspection, and deep reflection. Find a balance between lightheartedness and seriousness, using humor to punctuate heavier moments without diminishing their impact.
    • Stay Relatable: Avoid being overly formal or distant. Instead, adopt a conversational tone that invites the reader into your personal world.

    Example: Write about your time eating street food, mixing humor about the occasional awkwardness with the deep appreciation of the local food culture.


Final Thought

To create a style similar to Anthony Bourdain’s in photography and writing, embrace a personal, empathetic, and authentic approach. Take time to connect with your subjects, explore their stories in-depth, and reflect that complexity in both your visuals and words. Your curiosity and respect for people and cultures will become the foundation of your work, allowing you to share stories that are not just compelling but meaningful.

Here are some photography techniques and writing prompts to help you get started with creating work inspired by Anthony Bourdain's style. These exercises are designed to help you approach your subjects with curiosity, empathy, and authenticity.


Photography Techniques to Emulate Bourdain’s Style

  1. Capture the Ordinary in Extraordinary Ways

    • Technique: Take mundane, everyday moments and transform them into something captivating by focusing on details and texture. Use your lens to capture ordinary scenes from unique angles or with dramatic lighting. The beauty of Bourdain’s work was that it often found significance in what others might overlook.
    • Exercise: Photograph a busy street or market. Rather than focusing on wide shots, zoom in on small, intimate details: someone’s worn hands preparing food, the texture of an old building’s walls, or a small, overlooked object that tells a story.
  2. Use Natural Light for Mood and Atmosphere

    • Technique: Use golden hour (early morning or late afternoon) or night to create an intimate, immersive atmosphere in your images. Soft, warm light can add emotional depth to portraits or scenes.
    • Exercise: Photograph people at work or in their daily lives, either during the golden hour or under artificial light, and capture the contrast between light and shadow. This can convey a sense of warmth or mystery depending on the mood you want to evoke.
  3. Tell a Story Through Series

    • Technique: Rather than focusing on single images, think in terms of a series that tells a larger story. Like Bourdain, you want to create a narrative that unfolds across multiple shots—whether it's a person’s routine, a journey through a neighborhood, or the preparation of a meal.
    • Exercise: Document the preparation of a meal from start to finish, taking a series of photos that capture everything from raw ingredients to the finished plate. Focus on the process, the people involved, and the surrounding environment.
  4. Focus on the Human Element

    • Technique: Focus on people’s expressions and interactions with their surroundings. Capture moments where they are engaged in something meaningful or reflective, which adds emotional depth to the shot.
    • Exercise: Spend time observing a local chef or artisan at work. Photograph not just the finished product but their gestures, the emotion in their face, and the environment they’re in. Look for moments that reveal their passion or connection to their craft.
  5. Unconventional Angles and Perspectives

    • Technique: Experiment with shooting from unexpected perspectives, such as low angles, overhead shots, or through reflections. This will give your photographs a fresh perspective and allow you to explore the subjects in ways the viewer doesn’t typically expect.
    • Exercise: Find a subject like a street vendor or a home cook. Instead of photographing them straight on, try photographing them from below, overhead, or through a reflective surface like glass or a window.

Writing Prompts Inspired by Bourdain’s Approach

  1. Describe a Meal That Changed Your Perspective

    • Prompt: Write about a meal you’ve had that wasn’t just about the food but the experience around it. What was the cultural or personal significance of the meal? Who were you with, and what did it teach you about the place, the people, or yourself?
    • Example: Write about a time when you ate something completely foreign to you—perhaps a dish from a culture you didn’t understand at first. Describe the smells, textures, and flavors, and explore what the meal revealed about the culture it came from.
  2. Write About a Local Artisan or Chef

    • Prompt: Spend time with a chef, baker, or local artisan, and write a detailed account of their process, passion, and story. Focus on both their personal connection to their work and how it fits into the larger community or culture.
    • Example: Write about a family-run restaurant and its significance to a particular neighborhood. Focus on the personal story behind the restaurant, the challenges they face, and the connection they have with the people they serve.
  3. Engage with a Cultural Tradition Through Food

    • Prompt: Write a piece about a local food tradition that is tied to a specific event, holiday, or cultural practice. Explore the significance of the tradition and how it brings people together, and reflect on your own emotional connection to it.
    • Example: Write about the preparation and communal enjoyment of a dish tied to a family holiday or cultural festival. Delve into how the food connects people across generations, and how it reflects the values and history of the culture.
  4. Explore a Place's Hidden Stories

    • Prompt: Pick a place—whether it’s a city, town, or village—and write a narrative that goes beyond the typical tourist attractions. Seek out the hidden stories of the place: the local struggles, the history of a particular neighborhood, or the lesser-known aspects that give it character.
    • Example: If you visit a city with a turbulent history, write about how that history still affects the daily lives of its people. Document the stories of people who live in that area and their perspective on how the past has shaped their present.
  5. Reflect on Personal Growth Through Travel

    • Prompt: Write about a place you’ve traveled to that had a significant impact on your personal growth. Focus on how the trip challenged your perceptions or taught you something about the world or yourself. Include reflections on how food and people shaped that experience.
    • Example: Write about a time you traveled to a place where you felt out of your comfort zone. Reflect on how the experience—whether it was through food, cultural exchange, or new perspectives—changed how you view the world.
  6. Write with Multiple Perspectives

    • Prompt: Imagine you are writing a story from the point of view of several different people—someone who lives in the area you’re documenting, a traveler who’s just passing through, and a chef or local vendor who’s a part of the food culture. What unique insights can each person offer about the same place or experience?
    • Example: Write about a popular street food dish from the perspective of the vendor who sells it, the tourist who’s eating it for the first time, and a local who’s grown up with it. Each perspective can offer a different lens on the significance of the dish.

Combining Photography and Writing for an Immersive Story

Once you’ve tried these exercises, think about how you can combine both photography and writing to create a more immersive story. For instance:

  • Document a local food tradition through both images and words: Capture the textures and details of the food preparation, and accompany it with a personal reflection on the cultural significance.
  • Follow a person’s journey: Photograph a local chef, and write about their personal story. Document their process, and how they connect with their community. Your writing could give context to the photos and the photo series could make the story come to life.

These exercises will help you build a style that mirrors Bourdain’s approach by focusing on authenticity, empathy, and a deep sense of connection to the subjects you capture and write about. Each step invites you to engage fully with the people and cultures you document, much like Bourdain did with his subjects.



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