Showing posts with label Coffee. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Coffee. Show all posts

Friday, September 18, 2026

10 Ways to Begin Soft Living: A Gentle Revolution in a Troubled World


There is a quiet shift happening in the way people want to live. In response to a world that feels increasingly hurried, uncertain, and overwhelming, many are embracing
soft living, a lifestyle centered on gentleness, intention, and the simple pleasures of being alive.

Rather than glorifying busyness, endless productivity, and the pressure to constantly achieve, soft living invites us to slow down and reconsider what truly matters. It is not about laziness, privilege, or abandoning ambition. It is about creating a life that leaves room for rest, connection, beauty, and peace.

In a world saturated with distressing headlines, digital noise, and relentless demands, choosing softness can be a meaningful act of self-preservation. It allows us to replenish our emotional reserves, strengthen our relationships, and become more present in our daily lives.

And perhaps its greatest value extends beyond the individual. When people are less depleted, more emotionally grounded, and better rested, they may have greater capacity for empathy, patience, generosity, and community-mindedness. Our collective wellbeing begins, in part, with how we care for ourselves and one another.

10 Ways to Begin Soft Living

  1. Start your morning slowly. Enjoy your coffee or tea without immediately reaching for your phone.

  2. Spend time in nature. Take a walk, sit beneath a tree, or watch the changing sky. Listen for the birds.

  3. Create a peaceful home. Clear the clutter and surround yourself with things that bring comfort.

  4. Protect your time. Learn to say no to commitments that unnecessarily drain you.

  5. Make room for rest. Treat downtime as essential, not something you must earn. There is no longer shame in resting. 

  6. Cook nourishing meals. Turn everyday food preparation into a pleasurable ritual.

  7. Reduce digital noise. Establish regular breaks from social media and the news.

  8. Reconnect with creativity. Paint, photograph, knit, embroider, write, garden, bake, or make something simply for joy. Start a 'Commonplace Book'. 

  9. Nurture meaningful relationships. Choose genuine conversation over constant online interaction.

  10. Practice gratitude. Notice the small, beautiful moments that might otherwise pass unseen.

Soft living is not an escape from reality. It is a gentler way of meeting it, one mindful moment at a time.

Will you try to live a soft life? 


COPYRIGHT 2007-2026 Patti Friday b.1959.

Sunday, January 19, 2025

Best Coffee for Intermittent Fasting




 

There are many types of coffee, so it’s helpful to understand which ones are best suited for intermittent fasting. It’s equally important to recognize which types could interfere with a fast.

Choosing clean, organic coffee that is mold-free is ideal. Some coffee may contain mold that produces harmful mycotoxins, which can negatively impact health.

(I happily use Mountain Cabin organic, mold-free*, pesticide-free coffee. I order it online from The Wellness Store.)



Organic coffee tends to be healthier than conventional options because it involves less exposure to chemicals. While pesticide residues can be found in coffee beans, the risk is generally lower compared to many other foods, even if organic options are beyond your budget.



Research shows that organic farming methods can enhance antioxidant levels in crops like coffee. Since coffee is naturally rich in antioxidants, organic varieties, with their higher polyphenol content, can offer additional benefits.

Additionally, organic coffee is often sourced from higher-quality farms with superior drying and processing techniques. These practices help reduce the likelihood of mold* and mycotoxin* contamination. Even if organic isn’t an option, focusing on high-quality, well-sourced coffee is essential.

Caffeinated coffee is typically more beneficial than decaf for those fasting, as caffeine can boost metabolism, increase energy, and suppress appetite. However, if you prefer decaf, it can still provide some advantages during fasting.



*Mold in coffee, or more specifically, mold contamination in coffee beans, can potentially pose certain health risks if present in significant amounts. Mold spores thrive in damp environments, and coffee beans can become susceptible during harvesting, storage, or transport. The primary concern with mold in coffee is the production of toxins.


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COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Friday, January 3, 2025

Girl Math Coffee Math







GIRL MATH:
2 bags of mold-free, top quality Mountain Cabin Coffee -
Non-Members Pay $42.00.
Members (My Family) Pay $26.00.
The Wellness Store GAVE us $18.25 back in 'Loyalty Shopping Dollars' as a thank you perk
(because we happily order every month!).
TOTAL cost for 2 bags of the best coffee I have ever brewed at home:
$8.38 ☕☕☕☕☕☕☕☕
That's not girl math, that's COFFEE MATH!
(ONLY $1 to join this month!)
Here's the LINK for more info or to join!
NOTE: Important details below!
Patti xo








I got smart in 2024 and listened to my friend Rhonda who told me that she shops at The Wellness Store for her household.  I kept an open mind and listened to her tell me all about the benefits, perks and savings. It was a no-brainer and a game-changer. It cost $1 to join. It all made perfect sense. (cents!)

I decided to only buy non-toxic, safer, cleaner and greener products online delivered to my door. 
Did I mention ‘at a lower price’? 
Did I also mention I do not sell 
(thank goodness > I find sales exhausting and quite frankly I’m no good at it!)
and that I simply buy what my household needs or wants every month.
Redirecting my spending budget every month has never been easier.
Do you have a membership to The Wellness Store yet?
I would be happy to send you info. 
Find me at
pattifriday@hotmail.com (Use Subject: The Wellness Store)
Facebook:  Facebook



COPYRIGHT 2007-2025 Patti Friday b.1959.

Tuesday, November 26, 2024

My Everyday Coffee Recipes


Read more about why organic, mold-free coffee is important here.



RECIPE No 1: Morning Joe (My Daily Go-To)

My new coffee brand (Mountain Cabin) and I'm loving it! (I get mine from The Wellness Store) 

I have a morning coffee ritual. (btw I drink coffee in the A.M. and tea in the P.M.) I heat and froth skim milk - sometimes with unsweetened vanilla almond milk mixed in. Then I do a single cup pour over coffee with my handy dandy Melita Ready Set Joe Cone and a bamboo filter! So lo-fi, so old school. Then I pour the coffee into the frothed milk. Essentially it's a hybrid latte/cappuccino and I'm obsessed!



Organic coffee is grown without synthetic pesticides, herbicides, or chemical fertilizers. Conventional coffee is one of the most chemically treated crops in the world. By choosing organic, you avoid consuming trace amounts of these harmful substances in your daily cup.



RECIPE No 2:  Protein Mocha Latte

Tastes like mocha latte! 20g protein.

Make your morning coffee as you normally would.
(I only use Mountain Cabin organic, mold-free*, pesticide-free coffee)
In a bullet or....hand frother mix your favorite milk or milk substitute with 2 scoops protein powder. (chocolate)
Fill your mug half way with this blended mix and top with the fresh & hot coffee.
You will get 2 mugful's!
Enjoy! btw It's delicious!
Another win from 'The Wellness Store'


*Mold in coffee, or more specifically, mold contamination in coffee beans, can potentially pose certain health risks if present in significant amounts. Mold spores thrive in damp environments, and coffee beans can become susceptible during harvesting, storage, or transport. The primary concern with mold in coffee is the production of toxins.





COPYRIGHT 2007-2024 Patti Friday b.1959.