Patti Friday: Well-being: The Ancient, Modern, and Very Necessary Pursuit of Feeling Good

Saturday, August 16, 2025

Well-being: The Ancient, Modern, and Very Necessary Pursuit of Feeling Good

Let’s be honest: “well-being” is one of those words that gets thrown around so much it almost sounds like a fancy spa treatment. (“Excuse me, I’ll have the aromatherapy massage with a side of well-being, please.”) But underneath the buzzword-y glow, well-being is one of the most important, timeless, and universal human quests—something we’ve been chasing since we figured out fire was useful for more than roasting marshmallows.

So, what is well-being, really?

At its core, well-being is the state of being comfortable, healthy, and happy. It’s not just the absence of sickness or stress—it’s the presence of positive stuff: energy, purpose, connection, meaning, resilience, and, yes, maybe even a good night’s sleep (unicorn-level rare, I know). It’s physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and even financial. Basically, well-being is the whole kit and caboodle of being human.

A (very quick and fun) history of well-being

Well-being isn’t a new idea. Ancient Greeks were already pondering it, using the word eudaimonia, which roughly translates to “human flourishing” (and sounds like a fancy olive oil, but it’s not). Meanwhile, in ancient India, well-being was baked right into Ayurveda and yoga—entire systems designed around harmony of body, mind, and spirit. The Chinese had qi and balance, Indigenous peoples everywhere practiced holistic well-being through community and connection to nature, and medieval monks wrote about the joy of contemplation.

Fast forward to today, and we’ve got well-being apps pinging our phones, workplace “wellness initiatives” with free granola bars, and self-care trends that range from green smoothies to goat yoga. We might chuckle, but the truth is: humans have always been obsessed with feeling good, staying healthy, and living meaningful lives.

Why is well-being important?

Here’s the short answer: everything works better when we’re well.

For ourselves: When we prioritize well-being, we have more energy, clarity, and resilience to handle life’s curveballs (including in-laws, taxes, and Wi-Fi outages).
For our families: A well-balanced parent, partner, or grandparent sets the tone for the whole household. When one person invests in their well-being, it ripples through family dinners, bedtime routines, and even the dog notices.
For the economy: Believe it or not, well-being is big business. Healthy, happy people are more productive, creative, and less likely to burn out. Countries that prioritize citizens’ well-being often see stronger economies (and less money spent on preventable healthcare crises).
For society: Communities with higher well-being tend to have lower crime, better education, and more civic engagement. Translation: well-being makes people more likely to vote, volunteer, recycle, and maybe even smile at strangers.

The bottom line

Well-being isn’t just a personal indulgence—it’s a collective investment. It’s history, science, culture, and community rolled into one. And while we can’t control everything (hello, global news cycle), we can choose to water our own little well-being gardens: moving our bodies, eating something that grew in the ground, connecting with loved ones, getting enough rest, finding meaning in our days, and yes—sometimes splurging on that latte because joy counts, too.

If you’ve ever wondered if your pursuit of well-being is selfish, let me reassure you: it’s not. It’s contagious. It strengthens not only you, but your family, your community, and even the economy. (And who knew your bubble bath could be so patriotic?)

So, let’s raise a green smoothie—or a glass of red wine, both valid—to well-being: the ancient, modern, and absolutely necessary art of feeling good.

To flourish in the context of well-being means more than just “getting by” or “surviving”—it’s about thriving in every layer of life. Physically, it’s having the energy and strength to move through your days with vitality. Mentally, it’s cultivating clarity, curiosity, and resilience. Emotionally, it’s feeling balanced, connected, and able to navigate ups and downs with grace. Spiritually, flourishing means living with a sense of purpose or connection to something greater than yourself. And yes, even financially, it’s about stability and freedom—the ability to make choices that support your health and happiness. To flourish is to live fully, with all these dimensions in harmony, so your life feels expansive rather than constrained.

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